Let’s talk about something most women were never properly taught.
Your pelvic floor.
Not in a clinical, overwhelming way… just in a way that actually makes sense for your body and your life.
Your pelvic floor is a group of muscles that sit at the base of your pelvis. I always describe it like a support hammock. It holds and supports your bladder, bowel and uterus, but it’s not just sitting there doing nothing.
It’s working all day, every day.
With your breath.
With your core.
With how you stand, walk, lift and move.
And this is the part most women have never been shown properly…
👉 Your pelvic floor is directly connected to your breathing.
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🌬️ Your Breath Is Driving Everything
Inside your body, your diaphragm (the muscle under your lungs) and your pelvic floor work together as a team.
When you inhale, your diaphragm moves down to create space for your lungs to fill with air.
As that happens, everything gently moves down and out of the way… including your pelvic floor. It softens, lengthens, and drops.
Then as you exhale, your diaphragm lifts back up, and everything underneath follows.
Your pelvic floor gently lifts and returns back up into place.
This is your body’s natural rhythm.
Inhale → everything moves down and softens
Exhale → everything lifts and supports
And this is where things start to click.
Because when we lose this rhythm — through stress, tension, rushing, or holding — that’s when dysfunction can start to creep in.
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💡 Why This Matters in Real Life
If you’re constantly holding your breath, bracing hard, rushing movement, or living in a stressed, always “on” state, your pelvic floor often stops moving naturally with your breath.
Instead of lifting and relaxing, it either becomes weak and unresponsive or tight and overactive.
And both can create issues.
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🌿 Not Just Weak… Sometimes It’s Tight
One of the biggest misconceptions is that the pelvic floor just needs to be squeezed more.
But your pelvic floor doesn’t just need to be strong.
It needs to lift, relax, and move with your breath.
And for many women, the issue isn’t weakness… it’s tension.
This is what we call a tight or overactive pelvic floor.
It can feel like pelvic pain, tight hips, lower back discomfort, a feeling of pressure, or even leaking. Yes, even tight muscles can leak, because they can’t respond properly when they need to.
A muscle that is always “on” can’t function the way it’s meant to.
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🌿 Learning to Let Go
This is why relaxation is just as important as strength.
After a long day, a stressful day, a heavy workout, or even just a lot of walking, your body can hold onto tension.
This is where we bring things back down.
Simple positions like child’s pose, a gentle froggy stretch, or lying on your back with support under your legs can help your body feel safe enough to relax.
Then we add breath.
A slow inhale, letting your belly expand…
And allowing your pelvic floor to soften and drop.
No forcing.
No pushing.
Just allowing.
This is how you teach your body that it doesn’t always have to hold on.
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💛 What Your Body Might Be Telling You
If you’re feeling tight through your hips, sore through your lower back, or like your body is always a bit “on edge”, your pelvic floor may be part of that picture.
Your body is always communicating.
And sometimes what we think is tightness or stiffness is actually your body trying to protect you by bracing and holding.
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👩⚕️ Getting the Right Support
This is also where having the right support can make a huge difference.
Working with a Women’s Health Physio gives you something we simply can’t do from the outside…
👉 eyes on the inside
They can assess what’s actually happening internally, help you understand whether you need to learn to lift, relax, or both, and guide you back to feeling in control of your body again.
It’s not about something being wrong.
It’s about learning your body properly.
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🏋️♀️ Bringing It Into Your Training
When we bring this into strength training, everything starts to connect
Before you lift, instead of rushing in or bracing hard, you take a breath out, gently lift through the pelvic floor, lightly connect through your core, and then move.
It’s subtle, but it changes everything.
Your lifts feel more controlled.
Your body feels more supported.
You’re not pushing through pressure… you’re working with it.
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🚶♀️ And Into Everyday Life
This isn’t just something you do on a mat.
This is real life.
Getting out of a chair.
Picking something up.
Lifting your kids.
Exhale, gentle lift, move.
Over time, it becomes natural. You don’t have to think about it as much.
That’s the goal.
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💡 The Knack
There’s one simple tool that can make a big difference straight away.
It’s called The Knack.
Before something that creates pressure — like a cough, sneeze, laugh or jump — you gently lift your pelvic floor just before it happens, then let it go after.
That quick connection helps support your body in those moments and builds control over time.
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🤍 Final Thought
You don’t need to get this perfect.
You don’t need to master it overnight.
You just need to start noticing.
Start feeling.
Start understanding when to lift… and when to let go.
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Because real strength doesn’t start with how hard you train.
It starts with how well your body is functioning underneath it all.
And that’s what we’re building here.
From the Inside to Out.